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Part Two: How to Live Your Values in a Political Climate That Feels Exhausting

  • Writer: Terri K. Lankford, LPCS
    Terri K. Lankford, LPCS
  • May 29
  • 4 min read

Welcome to part two of our series on living a values-based life, even when the world around you feels exhausting. If you missed part one, we talked about:

  • Values-based actions, and what we mean when we reference them.

  • Why it matters, especially in this day and age, to recognize our values and to follow them.

  • How to identify the values that can become a guidepost for you even in times of strife.

Many people are emotionally exhausted right now. The current political climate has left countless individuals carrying fear, grief, anger, hopelessness, and deep uncertainty about the future. For marginalized communities especially, ongoing attacks on rights, safety, healthcare, education, bodily autonomy, and basic dignity are not abstract political conversations; they are deeply personal realities that impact daily life and emotional wellbeing.

Living through a constant stream of harmful rhetoric, injustice, and social regression can take a significant toll on mental health. Many people feel trapped between wanting to stay informed and feeling completely overwhelmed by the emotional weight of what they are witnessing. In moments like these, it can become difficult to know how to keep moving forward without becoming consumed by helplessness.

This is where values can become incredibly important. Values-based living is not about pretending things are okay when they clearly are not. It is about choosing how we want to show up in the world even during painful and uncertain times.

So, how can you live a values-based life, even in the current sociopolitical climate? Read on for more info from the holistic healers at Rise and Thrive Counseling!

Caring Deeply Is Not Weakness

One of the harmful messages many people internalize is that caring deeply makes them “too emotional,” “too sensitive,” or unable to cope. In reality, emotional responses to injustice, cruelty, discrimination, or harm are often reflections of deeply held values. Grief can reflect love. Anger can reflect a desire for fairness and safety. Fear can reflect the importance of protecting ourselves and the people we care about.

Numbing ourselves completely may temporarily reduce distress, but emotional shutdown is not the same thing as resilience. Staying connected to our humanity in difficult times is painful, but it is also meaningful.

Ways to Validate and Support Yourself:

  • Remind yourself that your emotional reactions make sense in context

  • Allow yourself to grieve what feels lost, threatened, or uncertain

  • Spend time with people who share your values and support your wellbeing

  • Reduce exposure to online spaces that increase despair without offering meaningful connection

  • Remember that empathy and compassion are strengths, not weaknesses

Small Actions Still Matter

When political systems feel overwhelming, it can become easy to believe that individual actions no longer matter. Hopelessness often tells us there is no point in trying. While no single person can fix systemic issues alone, values-based actions still create impact.

Community care, advocacy, mutual aid, honest conversations, and showing up for one another matter deeply. Small actions may not solve every problem, but they help create connection, resistance, support, and humanity in environments that often encourage isolation and hopelessness.

Values-based action also helps restore a sense of agency. It reminds us that even when we cannot control every outcome, we can still choose how we participate in our communities and relationships.

Ways to Pursue Your Values Right Now:

  • Support organizations or community efforts that align with your values

  • Engage in advocacy in ways that feel sustainable for your nervous system

  • Participate in mutual aid or local community support when possible

  • Have honest conversations about issues that matter to you

  • Practice compassion and care in everyday interactions with others

Protecting Your Nervous System Is Also A Values-Based Action

Many people feel pressure to stay constantly informed, constantly engaged, and constantly vigilant. While awareness is important, living in a perpetual state of hypervigilance is not sustainable for the human nervous system. Doomscrolling, overexposure to distressing content, and chronic stress can eventually lead to emotional shutdown, anxiety, burnout, or hopelessness.

Rest, boundaries, joy, and emotional regulation are not signs that you have stopped caring. In many ways, they are what make long-term care and advocacy possible.

Ways to Stay Grounded During Overwhelming Times:

  • Set boundaries around social media and news consumption

  • Create routines that support nervous system regulation and rest

  • Prioritize moments of joy, creativity, and connection without guilt

  • Allow yourself to step back when overwhelm becomes unmanageable

  • Remember that sustainable engagement is more effective than constant depletion

There is nothing weak or irrational about struggling emotionally in a political climate that feels frightening, harmful, or exhausting. Your reactions make sense. At the same time, your values can help guide you through the uncertainty. Even small actions rooted in compassion, authenticity, justice, and community can help you remain connected to yourself and others during difficult times.

If you want more holistic help, look no further than Rise and Thrive Counseling. Our holistic counselors can help address all areas of life. Reach out today to learn more. We look forward to hearing from you!


 
 
 

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I’m Terri Kiser Lankford, owner of the Rise & Thrive Counseling Practice, a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (in NC), and the host here at Rise & Thrive Counseling, PLLC and the Embrace| Overcome|CreateYourLife Blog.

 

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