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January as a Nervous System Reset: Trauma-Informed Ways to Begin Again (Part 1)

  • Writer: Terri K. Lankford, LPCS
    Terri K. Lankford, LPCS
  • Jan 15
  • 3 min read

January arrives loudly. New calendars, new expectations, new pressure to feel hopeful, motivated, and ready to “start fresh.” For many people, this season doesn’t feel energizing; instead, it feels heavy, dysregulating, or overwhelming. And if you’ve experienced trauma, that reaction makes sense.


Rather than treating January as a productivity reset, trauma-informed care invites us to see it as a nervous system reset. A slower, more compassionate entry into the year; one that prioritizes safety, regulation, and self-trust before any form of change.


So, how can you have a trauma-informed start to 2026? Read on for more info from the holistic healers at Rise and Thrive Counseling - and stay tuned for part two later this month! 


Understand Why “Fresh Starts” Can Feel Threatening After Trauma

Trauma changes how the nervous system responds to change. Even positive transitions can activate survival responses, especially when they come with pressure, uncertainty, or expectations to perform differently.


When January triggers anxiety, shutdown, or resistance, it’s not a lack of motivation, it’s your nervous system doing its job.


Some ways you can support yourself in the January transition include:


  • Normalize your response to January without labeling it as laziness or failure

  • Notice signs of nervous system activation (fatigue, irritability, avoidance, numbness)

  • Remind yourself that safety comes before growth

  • Release timelines that suggest healing should “restart” with the calendar year

  • Practice curiosity instead of judgment about how your body is responding


Focus on Regulation Before Resolution

Trauma-informed healing doesn’t ask, “What do I want to fix?” It asks, “What helps me feel safe enough to be present?” Regulation is the foundation that makes reflection, intention-setting, and change sustainable. January doesn’t need clarity; it needs capacity.


You can support yourself through:


  • Anchor your days with predictable routines, even small ones

  • Engage in grounding practices that bring you back into your body

  • Reduce exposure to content that pressures constant self-improvement

  • Allow rest to be an active part of healing, not a reward

  • Check in with your body before committing to new responsibilities


Redefine “Beginning Again” as Continuation, Not Reinvention

Trauma recovery is not linear, and January doesn’t erase what came before. A trauma-informed approach honors continuity: carrying forward what already works, rather than demanding reinvention. Beginning again can be as simple as staying connected to yourself.


You can support yourself through:


  • Reflect on what helped you survive the last year, not just what you want to change

  • Set intentions around feelings (safety, steadiness, connection) rather than outcomes

  • Choose one supportive practice to continue, instead of adding more

  • Let your goals be flexible and responsive to your nervous system

  • Trust that slow progress is still progress


Resources to Explore A Trauma-Informed Start to 2026


If you’re interested in exploring trauma-informed nervous system care more deeply, these resources offer compassionate, accessible learning:


Books

  • The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

  • Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine

  • Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman


Websites & Blogs

  • National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine (NICABM)

  • Somatic Experiencing® International

  • Therapist Aid (trauma-informed worksheets and psychoeducation)


Podcasts

  • The Trauma Therapist Podcast

  • Stuck Not Broken

  • Notice That with Dr. Eli Lebowitz


Apps

  • Insight Timer (nervous system–friendly meditations)

  • Finch (gentle self-care without pressure)

  • MindShift CBT (grounding and anxiety tools)


Speaking of resources: if you want more holistic help, look no further than Rise and Thrive Counseling. Our holistic counselors can help address all areas of life. Reach out today to learn more. We look forward to hearing from you!


Another resource to look out for - part two of our trauma-informed New Year series, coming to you 1/30/26! We’ll be talking about gentle physical practices to support your January reset in an affirming way. Stay tuned!

 
 
 

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I’m Terri Kiser Lankford, owner of the Rise & Thrive Counseling Practice, a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (in NC), and the host here at Rise & Thrive Counseling, PLLC and the Embrace| Overcome|CreateYourLife Blog.

 

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